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(Date Posted: 03/03/2008 09:03:25)

This family is using the internet as a medium for sharing their thoughts and finding a voice to do something about this tragedy.  I encourage all families and friends to think about using the internet to reach out to others, share with them as to how they have learned to deal with this sort of situation so we can all benefit from each other and form an online social bond.  Support from others can only help.
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RE:Support for families who have lost a loved one abruptly
(Date Posted: 03/03/2008 09:45:32)


Doesn't anyone realize that when a life is taken it affects the familiy? Taking Asher's life.. did it accomplish anything? Was it worth it? That's a question I have for the murderer.
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(Date Posted: 03/04/2008 20:05:02)


I can never forget the first time I met Asher. Her brother Ashton took me to visit his family and there she sat infront of the TV. She really was a very charasmatic individual. She was full of life and energy. We went to a club that same night and she had on one of the fliest outfits. She made me laugh that night and everytime afterwards. It still baffles me when I think that she is no longer with us. She will never be forgotten thats one thing I know for sure. But I do pray that her murderer will get the justice that he deserves!
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(Date Posted: 03/06/2008 19:26:55)


This post is coming from Asher's mother, Sandra Elliott, who will like to extend thanks  to my family and friends  who has helped put up  my daughter's site as well as asist  me through this tough period due to the loss of my daughter.

It is months since I found Asher's  lifeless body in her car in my driveway, yet her memory is all that keeps me going. My daughter was such a bright light in my life. Her energy, her humor, her love  and her charisma made me  proud to be her mother. Asher was known for those qualities from all of her family and friends. Although it pains me that my only daughter is no longer with me, it gives me comfort to know that  because of  her wonderful personality her  memory will never fade. She will be remembered as the young, beautiful woman who has touched the hearts of all those she came in contact with. Asher you are gone but you will never be forgotten.  Everyone who knew you  loved you dearly especially your mother and as I go though the remainder of my life I know you are watching down on me with the angels above. I love you.


                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        ~Sandra Elliott~
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RE:Support for families who have lost a loved one abruptly
(Date Posted: 05/29/2008 21:08:19)


This message is for Ms Sandra Elliott.
      Sandra my heart goes out to you and your family as the days go by and the dreadful one year anniversary of the loss of your baby girl arrives. You are truely an amazing woman, everyday I see you at work and wonder, "how does she do it?"  Asher would be proud.  She always spoke highly of you, if I ever had a nursing question her first response would be "I'll ask Mommy".  She looked up to you and now I can honestly see why,  I don't know of another person with such strength.
        Today Asher's favorite patient passed away, sad to say my first thought was. . .I think  she (the patient)  just wanted to be with Asher.  Who wouldn't want to be with Asher right?  ;)    Asher may not be here with us but I still see so much  of her in you, a couple of weeks ago before you went to St. Lucia  you had a haircut that brought out the features in your face  that you passed on to your baby girl and that  was all I saw. Twice I had to hide my face while talking to you, I didn't want  you to see the tears flowing,  looking at you was like looking at  Asher. It was a beautiful thing but I'm a baby. 
          Sandra continue to stay strong  and please keep in mind if you need  anything or need to talk  I'm here.  My prayers  continue to be  with you. 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Jenn (your favorite nurse)
Ps This website is  a wonderful tribute to Asher.
     

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RE:Support for families who have lost a loved one abruptly
(Date Posted: 05/31/2008 18:50:16)


I only knew asher since she started to attend weaver high school and we even ended up going to goodwin college the same time, we were both on the coss country team although i was not a very good runner but it was something to be occupied with, and believe you me she was one of the most beautiful person inside and out i have ever met, and i honestly must say it has been one of my greatest honor to have known her. The last time i saw asher was in april of 2007 at jhamske's jamaican restaurant in hartford and i remembered she did something she use to always do to me. You see everytime asher and i came it contact she was always the one to see me first and she would always tap me on my shoulder and say hi inthat sweet angelic voice of her i had my daughter with me and i remember her telling me how cute she was. When i was leaving out of the store we both said simultaneously that we hoped to see each other again soon. That was it i never saw her again.

Ms. Sandra Elliot i cant begin to tell you how sorry i am. I know that by now you must have heard this a million times and it does not make the pain go away. I purposely did not attend asher's wake because i kept telling my self that ths whole thing was justa co-incdence and that asher is very much alive and well (but in reality i really dont know what i would hae done if i were to really lay my eyes upon her lifeless body in casket. Ms. Elliot i do not know how you cope with all this. you are truly an angel and a woman who belongs to god) There were so many times i wanted to knock on your door and just pour out my heart and tell you of how sorry i was about this whole inhuman ordeal, but then i would always thought maybe i should just stay away i did not want to dig up any extra and unecessary pain and sorrow and of course all of the sorry's in the world would not bring asher back. It is even now that i regret not saying anything to you because i have just discovered that you have moved. I use to drive pass the house sometimes just to see if i might see the honda accord parked up in the driveway even though i know i will never see it again. It has been almost a year and it is now that i am coming to grips with everything that has happened. Despite of how hard it  might be Ms. Elliot I pray, hope, and beg that you can find it in your heart one day to smile & be joyful  and know that everything will be ok. Please just remember that there is a GOD and he never sleeps and that  whoever is responsible for this  will have to answer to HIM for this act that has brought so much sorrow and pain into people's lives. I sincerely believe that the asher i knew would not have wanted you to go throuh life in pain and sorrow. 
Although it may not make a difference i will post my cell number if you or anyone else simply just want to talk.
(860) 752-8788
May Asher's Love, Joy, and Grace shower your heart and life abundantly
To the Glace and Elliot Family i extended my deepest sympathy and love.
God Bless,
Nina C.
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RE:Support for families who have lost a loved one abruptly
(Date Posted: 06/03/2008 09:44:43)


?Dear Sandra,
I still think about your loss. ?It haunts me to know that whoever is responsible for this tradgety is still walking the streets that we all move about on. ?With the one year anniversary of her death, I am saddened. ?I am sorry. ?Just realize, you can rest in knowing that your little girl is working hard in the land of the Lord. ?She left an imprint on everyone she came in contact with. ?I know that someday, we will all see her once again. ?I can hear her now, "it's about time you all showed up to help me." ? "Gladdies making patties, thanks to you!" ?She was so comical to work with. ?I enjoyed each and every day that she worked with me. ?She always took that extra step in the care she rendered to her patients. ?And you, my dear, I will never forget you. ?You are a wonderful person. ?I am just sorry that you had to go through this. ?You and her were so close. ? As Fathers day approaches, my heart goes out to her Daddy as well. ?Know that I think of her often and I think this is a wonderful way for friends to express their feelings of loss and sorrow.
God Bless you and your family. ?Lori Schmid
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Re:Support for families who have lost a loved one abruptly
(Date Posted: 06/17/2009 16:46:47)


I am glad that I had the opportunity to have known Asher. God bless Ms. Sandra Asher's brother and the family.

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